For some people, popularity and fake friends welcome them.
For others bullying and exclusion disregards them.
I have faced a couple really mean chicks. The thing that bugs them and drives them crazy is when you shoot back... Let me explain.
When ever you see them, DO NOT START saying things you will defiantly regret. Don't say anything at all!!! Only say something if they start.... Let me explain further.
Bully: Hey snotface. Were you able to actually get anything on your grade other than an F-?
U: Hey! Yeah actually I did! I got a B+ and I was just psyched!!! What about you?
Bully: Whatever.... (walking away)
Now if you see what I mean, the bully started it and you pushed it back. Just cause their rude doesn't mean that you can be just as rude and mean back. It never helps the situation. Don't EVER lie! EVER!!! Because if they somehow find out, which they could, you'll look bad. Here is another example.
Bully: Your just so dumb!
U: Thanks! I really appreciate that!
You dont want them to know that they can get to you! After awhile your confidence will build up and you wont have to pretend anymore. When their bullying YOU its because they can pick on you. If you show them that your the bigger person (not as in hight or weight but as in you are mature and you can handle a situation) then they will respect you in a rude and rather mean way, but they still will respect you.
CAUTION! This advice might not work on every bully, but there is a 99% chance. But then again I was never good at math... Anyway! You have to figure out your bully and know how they 'work' before you can do anything.....
Hope this helps!!! Yours truly!
When ever you see them, DO NOT START saying things you will defiantly regret. Don't say anything at all!!! Only say something if they start.... Let me explain further.
Bully: Hey snotface. Were you able to actually get anything on your grade other than an F-?
U: Hey! Yeah actually I did! I got a B+ and I was just psyched!!! What about you?
Bully: Whatever.... (walking away)
Now if you see what I mean, the bully started it and you pushed it back. Just cause their rude doesn't mean that you can be just as rude and mean back. It never helps the situation. Don't EVER lie! EVER!!! Because if they somehow find out, which they could, you'll look bad. Here is another example.
Bully: Your just so dumb!
U: Thanks! I really appreciate that!
You dont want them to know that they can get to you! After awhile your confidence will build up and you wont have to pretend anymore. When their bullying YOU its because they can pick on you. If you show them that your the bigger person (not as in hight or weight but as in you are mature and you can handle a situation) then they will respect you in a rude and rather mean way, but they still will respect you.
CAUTION! This advice might not work on every bully, but there is a 99% chance. But then again I was never good at math... Anyway! You have to figure out your bully and know how they 'work' before you can do anything.....
Hope this helps!!! Yours truly!
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